This month I’m celebrating shooting my 100th wedding.
It’s such a small and such a large number at the same time. At ~10 hours per wedding, I’m about 1000 hours into weddings so far. Although I shoot a lot outside of weddings, it will still be years before I hit my 10,000 hours. But I’m working on it and enjoying the process.
100 weddings have given me great insight into the celebration we call a wedding. I’ve witnessed the tears and joy of so many couples, families, and friends. Although each couple is unique, the way we celebrate them is often quite similar. I’m enthralled by weddings more now than the day I started (and I loved them then!)
This year I’ve had the fortune of shooting in two hemispheres, three countries, and seven states. Five of those trips were as a second photographer. It’s been so refreshing to be able to extend my creativity by working alongside so many talented photographers and being able to just “do my thing” without fear of needing to capture anything specifically. Thanks to Kyle, Jen, Matt, Riitta, and Ruthie for having me join them this year.
Hitting 100 weddings would not have been possible if it wasn’t for some people who I’d like to thank publicly:
My wife, Jessica: her support of my dreams have given me the ability to spread my wings into flight in ways I couldn’t have done on my own. I cherish her and her love. She’s there to correct me, ground me, and prod me forward.
My clients: from those that put their trust in me when I had little to no portfolio to those that continue to put their trust in me on shoots even this past week; thank you, from the bottom of my heart. I want to serve you the best I can and you’re appreciate makes my job so much sweeter.
My supporters: To everyone who’s ever said a kind word, shared my work, or passed my name on to people looking for a wedding photographer – thank you.
My colleagues: Although I work for myself, I’m not alone. The groups that I’m part of (both locally and internationally) have brought me great joy, heaps of encouragement, and helped me to improve as a photographer, businessman, and person. They have shown me so much love (even to the point that they’ve created the #stenzmeme recently – a play on the Ryan Gosling “Hey Girl” meme). Working alone in an office is made so much better by knowing these people.
There are other people I’m sure I’m missing; Rich+Andrea, neighbors of mine who encouraged me to try out weddings; my mom – because mom’s are always the best at encouraging and promoting; Jessica’s boss and his wife (John+Sherri), who shared with us the ups and downs and entrepreneurship; and so many more people that have helped to form me and guide me through this process.
100 weddings and counting. I’m overwhelmed with gratefulness and looking forward to the next 100.
Where to start with this wedding? Elizabeth+Chris put on one heck of a event. They flew in from New York City to have their wedding in the little “borough” of Milwaukee.
They started by putting together an amazing set of vendors and locations (like getting ready at the Pfister, being wed at the Cathedral of St John the Evangelist, receptioning at the Priztlaff and dancing to the fantastic Platinum Band). And lets not forget the beautiful flowers by Fresh Designs and delicious cake from The Cake Lady.
And they had their broadway dancer friends help them choreograph the first dance (which was your classic start off slow and then bring the house down routine).
But all of that aside, one of favorite parts of the people around them. Seriously. So much love. And humor. And authentic tears of joy. It was utterly fantastic.
Thank you both for letting me into your lives to help celebrate you both!